Cope with humor changes

Greetings to all!

I enter here "by the hand" of my wife, Paula (DM I of 25 years of development), who has advised me to ask you for advice and recommendations to cope with its humor changes caused by uncontrolled glycems.

We have been married for seven years and the truth is that I still have a hard time getting the idea that I am angry, sad, nervous, ... for no apparent reason.You already know that many men do not understand you with a GPS;)

I do not ask for a psychoanalytic dissertation, but rather some councils to sweeten those moments that happen so badly.

In the end, the DM III also have our little heart.I know that some will tell me to speak with her and that, and I assure you that I have done it many times, but it is already known that you learn a lot from the experience of others.

See you soon!
Frank.

Hello! Humor changes are due to glucose variations.Having hypos and hyper does not find it well, and the body expresses it that way.In addition, when it is in hypoglycemia, it does not reason well and there are strange behaviors.So the most important thing not to have variations in character is to have glucose stable and in good values.
You can tell us the treatment to see if we help stabilize.:)

Thank you for your answer, Regina.You ask me about my wife's treatment, and you may have "spoken" with her, because she writes in this forum for several months.Anyway, I will tell you that it has been insulin bomb for a year.Thank God, he has been able to lower the "Hemo" to 7.2.A little over a month ago he stopped smoking, with which to the humoral complications of glycemia, the changes motivated by abstinence are joined.However, it is much more the good that makes those details, so in general I am very happy with that decision that cost him so much to take and very proud of how he is carrying it.
I understand that it must be very hard to try to keep this odious disease under control while the nicotine monkey can hold.I admire her more;And not only for that reason, but for how he has faced the setbacks and mosquitoes of the DM and endure me at the same time, that - it is incidentally - it is not easy either: oops: Oops:
Well, that's all for now.

Holasss

The coexistence is what it has ... supporting the defects of the "cohabiting" person.

From my point of view, the important thing is not to contribute to "globalize" diabetes in the person ... I explain myself.Sometimes we tend, type 1 and type 3, to consider diabetes the axis of our life and point to diabetes as a cause of most things/problems we have.
Therefore, it is usually better to say "patient with diabetes" to say "diabetic."
In the first case, one of the many characteristics of a person is said.
In the second case, a single characteristic (diabetes) completely defines the person ... invalidating the rest of qualities (in the event that has them).

While it is true that glycemia increases/declines can be the cause of episodes of emotional instability, I do not create them causing "unbearability" states, except for clinical cases of depression.
Diabetes is a "task" (inserting preferred insult), but neither is invalidant nor is excuse to justify almost everything ...

It is best to know the illness, theory and practice as well as possible .... and speak, understand, help and turn page.

Welcome to the forum !!!!In my house the worst humor is me, that I am the type 3: Oops :, even though the high or low sugar has to do with physical or psychological discomfort ... it is true that assuming a chronic disease,Or the bad control of diabetes, etc., can affect the mood very directly, there is no doubt about that, but Owash is very right, you have to learn to carry this in such a way that our life does not turn around... That would be ideal.
A kiss for the 2

I totally agree with Owash (how strange :)) :))) My character has not changed since I have diabetes, promptly with hypoglycemia I am more off, irritable ... but that disappears at the time I take sugar.I like to justify anything for having diabetes, or bad character or anything.
Frank Welcome, Paula is very lucky: D .....

Hello everyone.I thank you very much for the time you have dedicated to me, as well as your contributions.
Indeed, Owash seems to have read my mind, since one of my main arguments when I encourage Paula is to reaffirm that for me (and also for her) diabetes is nothing more than an annoying characteristic, such as another aspect of her physique orPersonality, but much less is something decisive in my relationship with her.What I mean, to summarize, is that - as you have affirmed - or Paula or anyone is only "diabetic", but people with great to offer and receive those who have touched the damn lottery of this disease.
Finally, I want to thank you -prado- for "Paula is very lucky."I simply wanted to add that it is I who considers himself lucky for having known her and having her by my side.
I hope to keep reading you.

In my house the worst humor is me, that I am the type 3: Oops :, despite the fact that high or low sugar has to do with physical discomfort orpsychological ....

We tend to think that type 3 do not have glycemic alterations and that is not so ... Stress or food intake make glycemia peaks similar to type 1 or 2, only much less accused and durable.

You're right :-/

You are leaving me wajajajaja
The humor changes can come for ups and downs of sugar, forgive my ignorance on the subject I just debuted in this, I am with high levels from 220 to 290, and I have better changes of humorous days and worse days,But I find it hard to believe that it is for blood glucose, I thought so far that it was for my work that is not physically tired but psychologically, but look at a thing that is happening to me in these 15 days more or less, sinceI have discovered that I have the high glucose indices I am more nice, and I really say it.

I have to admit that this diabetes has erased me part of the smile .. Before it was much more cheerful .. now I am always aware of the sugar and in my case I was very glottone .. not eating sweet I carry it well ..but the pasta and rice .. It is my ruin .. I accompanied everything of hydrates!I have also noticed a very exaggerated tiredness .. but a work scheme from 8 to 10 hours, sometimes included (although it is not very physical work), the things of home, sport, girl and some hobby .. makes sugarWeigh more.I would have to put a monument to my husband ... and that I know .. I even click my sleeping finger to control myself .. and may I rest more ..

Good pochola your fashion and your husband !!Mine fits until when I turn on the night lamp to look at me and some nights that do not stop vibrating the dexcom (which puts a buzz that wakes up an elephate) I do not tell you na, thankfully I have a "sweeter" character.

This marriages and sugar is a game of compensating characters! It is clear! Hehehe; D

My mother with my father has the patience of the Holy Job, but of course after 41 married years he also weighs him, he has his relief and his "complaints", it is normal.This has to be as a team is clear, in my case now the team is my husband the child and me.I am clear that who suffers it is the patient, but the patient also also has to understand that those next to us suffer, otherwise, obviously, but we suffer.
My child already had a bad milk and a character of Aupa, although then it gets carried away very well ... but soon !!!So now ...

@zoiloyyo I will not deny that I had character before (but I was always very cheerful and dichache)be the same as before (or better; d) and make you easier to live with my family in general.My most sincere admiration for taking care of your child.The sick I think we have a misfortune with the sugar but we are lucky to have the people around us and love us.

Pochola is that I have refused from day to our life it is sad and off, sorry but no.My parents were very soon, my mother of her mother at 7 years old, and my father of her father at 3, in the postwar period, in villages of Castile, with other mentalities, my father debuts in full military service with 20Years, then he stays paraplegic with 44 years of a labor acident.I cost me 4 years that my son is here, an endometriosis operation, several omifin cycles, and an in vitro fertilization ..é :).This ignores ... because we should count much more ...
I am not going to say that my parents are bitter people, but the poor who have weighed a lot, a lot.We have always lived surrounded by ups and downs.They have allowed it.They have dedicated themselves to us, 3 children and they have given us everything, races where we have wanted, they have taken a hand when we have married ... in short, great parents!
Obviously I did not throw rockets when I knew that my son had diabetes but I have to face this as another stone on our way, take the bull by the horns and not be regretting the corners.For the simple reason that I do not advance anything.It is true that Jod*, we are not going to fool ourselves ... but girl, life is still full of good things so to live and enjoy them, with your head well furnished all and being aware of what this is and whatYou have to do so that the consequences are the possible minors and come as late as possible .. If they have to come.
So everyone counts and keep fighting!

You do not lack reason, and I think about it .. I need to put it into practice .. although I am in it! I impress the hardness of your story .. Thank you for your mood and I hope to have your attitude, from this forum I will try to learnof you and others compis everything that makes me more féliz and easy day to day.A big hug

Good !!, this happens to me too !!!

Hahaha

gala said:
... mine fits until when I turn on the lamp at night to look at me and some nights that do not stop vibrating the dexcom (which puts a buzz that awakens an elefate) I do not tell you na,Luckily I have a "sweeter" character.

I marry in July, but in four years together, he already knows that when I rare he tells me .... you have the test that I feel bad ... before I fought, I did not understand it .... Thedifferent things ....
I do not see my diabetes as a chungo, for me it is like a marriage, sometimes better ... another not .... it cost me my years to realize :-)